HELD Cove

A Parenting Community

A gentle, grounded space where parents are supported to respond with presence and compassion — so their children can grow resilient, emotionally secure, and deeply connected.

Join the Cove. Cancel anytime. Stay as long as it supports you.

WEOLCOME, MY FRIEND!

You don’t have to hold it all alone.

Parenting can be deeply meaningful—and also isolating, overwhelming, and tender.

Many parents arrive here already doing their best:

Trying to stay regulated,

Trying not to repeat patterns,

Trying to respond with more patience than they sometimes have access to.

HELD exists for those moments

This is not a place to fix yourself or your child.

It’s a place to be met, supported, and accompanied as a human—in real parenting life.

Maja, Mother of 2

"Your warmth, unconditional understanding, your ability to really hold space for us made it possible to trust you. I have felt as if you are taking me by hand and guiding me through rough patches, safe in the knowledge that I am not alone on the road.

This, for me, being used to doing it all on my own, not daring to show my biggest weaknesses to other people, hiding them in fear of being abbandoned, was just transformative. I have actually for the first time in my life felt completely safe and accepted for who I am, mistakes and all, and being able to share my weakest moments as a person and not feeling judged, but understood and held in compassion, released something in my body and with tears came relief and self-acceptance."

What HELD is

HELD is a small, intimate parenting community

designed to support your nervous system, your relationships, and your ongoing growth as a parent.Inside, you’ll find:

A consistent, intimate community of parents

A space to be seen and heard without pressure to perform, explain, or “get it right.”

Gentle facilitation grounded in relational neurobiology, somatics, and peaceful playful parenting

Including attachment, nervous system awareness, and compassionate, relational guidance.

Community conversations & reflection spaces

For sharing real parenting moments, questions, and lived experience—without advice unless invited.

Office Hours with Clara

Regular, open support spaces to bring what’s alive for you in parenting, integration questions, or moments you’re moving through.

Polyvagal Theory informed yoga & embodiment moments

Short, accessible practices designed to support regulation, presence, and reconnection—no yoga experience required.

Workshops & seasonal offerings

Occasional live or recorded gatherings exploring themes such as anger, repair, boundaries, grief, play, or nervous system resilience.

A book club & shared learning experiences

Slow, relational exploration of books that support emotional literacy, nervous system healing, and conscious parenting—at a human pace.

How this space is held

This is not a place to consume content or keep up. Some weeks you may participate actively. Other weeks you may simply listen, rest, or arrive quietly. Everything offered inside HELD is designed to:

  • support integration, not overwhelm

  • honor capacity and season

  • prioritize relationship over productivity

You are welcome exactly as you are.

Maja, Mother of 2

"(...) the most valuable aspect of the parenting circle were the initial grounding in presence exercises that really set the mood for the whole session and your simply incredible warm heart and accepting presence that has melted what feel like the last barriers to me."

What you’ll find inside

  • A small, intimate community of parents

  • Gentle facilitation grounded in neuroscience, somatics, and peaceful parenting

  • Spaces for reflection, sharing, and honest conversation

  • Language that reduces shame and increases understanding

  • Support for you, not just strategies for your child

No pressure to share. No advice-giving unless invited. No hierarchy of “doing it right.”

Maja, Mother of 2

"The group’s positive impact was in the fact it made me reflect on what I was doing, what was working and what wasn’t, and from this safe distance, surrounded by witnesses in a nonjudgemental place, I could share my fails, shed light on them and watch them as they melted away. I have had so many breakthroughs during our time together, it is incredible. 

I have already recommended your group and would recommend it with my whole heart to anybody who wants to reflect and grow in a warm presence of love and understanding. "

What HELD is not

  • Not a course

  • Not a performance space

  • Not a place to be “fixed”

  • Not another thing to keep up with

You don’t need to arrive calm, regulated, or clear.

You’re welcome exactly as you are.

Maja, Mother of 2

" (…) not only did I not yell at my kids in forever, I was also for the first time in my life able to extend the compassion and validation to my husband when he was having a rough time interacting with our kids.

 Do you know that because of that session we had on mastery and my realization that I am prone to seeing the problem, seeing the solution and implementing the solution, without giving my kids any say in the process, and than changing that to include them, my daughter and my son are now negotiating for win-win solutions ... even without my presence?"

A note from Clara

I created HELD because so many parents I work with are already trying so hard.

They don’t need more information. They need company.

They need a place where their nervous system can soften, where their humanity is not a problem, and where parenting is held within relationship, not judgment.

HELD is that space.

Join the Held Cove

Weekly live co-regulation circles
Monthly integration & coaching circle
Monthly themes + gentle practices
Private community space
Growing resource library

Founding Member Rate: $24.99/month

A soft, supportive place to return to each week… where you can slow down, feel less alone, and build more capacity for the moments that matter most. No pressure to be perfect. No expectation to “keep up.” Just ongoing support, connection, and space to come back to yourself… again and again.

Join the Cove. Cancel anytime. Stay as long as it supports you.